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Oral SexOral sex - oral pleasuring your partner genital area with kissing, sucking and licking. It is a popular sexual practice, especially in the alternative lifestyle.| About Oral Sex | How To Perform Oral Sex On Woman | How To Perform Oral Sex On Man |In some US states performing oral sex used to be crimePerforming oral sex in some US states used to be against the law until 2003 June 26. Of the 13 states with sodomy laws, four -- Texas, Kansas, Oklahoma and Missouri -- prohibited oral and anal sex between same-sex couples. The other nine banned consensual sodomy for everyone: Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina, Utah and Virginia. The June 26's ruling apparently invalidates all of those law. Legal analysts said the ruling enshrines for the first time a broad constitutional right to sexual privacy, and its impact would reach beyond Texas and 12 other states with similar sodomy laws applied against the gay and lesbian community, and into mainstream America. However American people didn't respect the sodomy law, since the late 1950's. Since the end of the 50's oral sex started to be popular in the swingers world. Today probably we can not find any 18 year old who - one way or the other - did not try oral sex. How to perform oral sex, (cunnilingus) on women | Go Up |The golden rule, you should not perform it until she is already turned on. How to turn her on? Basically do what makes her and you, of course, feel good. If you have a new partner then it is a different story. Everyone is different, therefore what is good for one, may not be good for others. However there are few general things that should please most of the ladies. First you have to get her into the mood. To get down directly to her genitals with your mouth is a big mistake. It is like a luxurious restaurant - they serve the food in a elegant manner - then you eat it. You have to make her serve her pussy.... How to begin? Kiss her and lick her and massage her. Play with her breasts. Then play with her nipples. Kiss and lick and suck them. Try to find her sensitive points. Don't touch the vagina until she is fully turned on. Play with her nipples until they stiff as a "pencil eraser". If they are hard, then it is time to kiss yourself down to the pubic area.
Open her legs with your hands if she did not open them. Be gentle. If she resists, she is not ready yet. Kiss and suck her body behind her knees and her thighs. She should be turned on by now. Open her legs and try to massage the perineum area between the vagina and anus. Use your finger to free her clitoris under the outer lips. Kiss and lick the clitoris area. Suck her Venus hill where the clitoris begins. Apply gentle pressure with your lips and suck it with gentle vacuum like pressure. Her clitoris is a way back in the clitoral hood. You might have to use two of your fingers to apply a little pleasure to the side of the hood to expose the clitoris. Make a small O your lips and simulate the clitoris area. Try humming with you mouth. The vibration will be transmitted to her genitals and create a very erotic feeling. Some women enjoy direct stimulation. Don't do to much because it is a very sensitive area. However if your partner is one of the few, than hold the surrounding area with your lips and write the alphabet on her clit with your tongue. If she doesn't like this, she will let you know. Than you should only play with the clit's area, (sides, below and above). Stimulate her labia with your hand and play with her nipples. Don't move your mouth until she reach the orgasm, unless if you would like to bring her into orgasm with intercourse. There are always things to do to spice sex up... | Go Up |Rinse your mouth with a extra strong mint flavoured mouth wash, or suck a mint flavoured candy... It is quite a sensation. Click here for G spot related info.Play with the anus area. If she doesn't pull her buttocks a way, insert your finger and try to find her G spot. You will know it, if you find, from her body reaction. Some women get highly aroused by anal and G spot stimulation. Also position can make a difference too. The women laying on her back is the best position for beginners or for couples, who don't have experience together. Remember, practice makes prefect. To make women really happy you have to love the pussy. The pussy has a taste and has a smell. You have love the taste of it and have to love the smell of it. If you don't like this, don't even bother to start. Click here for erotic anal massage tips.How to perform oral sex on men (fellatio)?For some women it is really frightening the first time, some others just love to give and receive oral sex right away. Before you go down on him, you have to make two things clear for yourself. The number one question is: Do you want to give him more pleasure? If your think you want to then the second question is: Do you love the penis enough? With out loving it, you can not perform oral. As your vagina, his penis has a taste and a smell too. Performing oral sex, you have to deal with this taste and smell. If you still would like to perform oral sex on him, then let's start. But how? Well somehow you have to.... for example with a single kiss. Kiss him on his belly button, maybe play with it a little (10 -20 seconds) with your tongue. Kiss him on his thigh and kiss his penis. He will know you are going to do something down there. Now try to lick it, just run your tongue around the head. For most men the most sensitive areas of the penis are the tip, the rim and the hole area of the head. For one reason or the other, some men don't like the hole area teased. Give it a try and see how he reacts.
The basic oral sex positionHe is lying on his back and you are kneeling at his side. Right now is time to get serious. Take his penis gently in the palm of your hand. He might not be hard yet, but don't worry, he will. Put his balls carefully in your mouth. Be very gentle, you don't want to cause pain. Hold his penis with your hand and pull slightly his balls with your mouth a way from his body. Stroke his penis from the head to the base. Circle the head with your tongue, then work your way down to the shaft. Right now you prepare his penis for the main attraction. Prepare means moisten it with your saliva. Wet your lips and stretch your mouth to cover your teeth. Form a O with your mouth. Grasping his penis firmly at the base, move your mouth down to the base and up to the head, varying the speed and the pressure of your mouth. Stop on the head. Suck the head part of his penis and play with it with your tongue. Move your hand on his penis up and down and keep sucking the penis head. You can use your mouth as a vacuum cleaner. Open your mouth to release the suction, then close again and give it several hard sucks. Be creative. A few licks are not enough. There is much more room in oral love play, you don't need to performing the same mouth move again and again. Do you want to finish him off? The oral trick... | Go Up |Massage his perineum area (between the anus and the base of the penis) with your thumb, while continuing to perform oral sex on him. The secret is in the applied pressure. If you massage too hard, he will move his buttocks away. If you will find the right pressure he will moan instantly and move erotically. His penis might start to vibrate like a tuning fork. Also some men's anus area are very sensitive. You can try to massage his anus. Once again if he doesn't move his buttocks a way, than is a time to take the next step. Massage his prostate. Moisturize your index finger very well and insert the top two tips into the anus. Press forward, in a firm "come hither" motion. You'll be able to feel the prostate the front part of the rectal wall. It is a small gland, feels like a little dom. By rubbing it the feeling of pleasure is obtained. Prostate massage is like anal sex - not for everyone. Some men like it, some don't, but you wont know until you try. Some men believe the fellatio is the most important thing that a women can do for a men. I disagree, the oral sex is certainly the important part of the today's alternative lifestyle. However sex and oral sex not the same. The sexual skill all together counts in the swingers world. Good to know oral sex info... | Go Up |A circumcised penis in North America very popular, because there are lot of American women who insist that the natural male is unclean. Because of this fact a big percentage of North American men are circumcised. The circumcised penis has lost the foreskin. The foreskin was there for a reason, to protect and moisturize. The foreskin is erogenous tissue that can enhance sensations during sex. Also because the penis head lost it natural protector, it lost a big percentage of sensitiveness. The constantly exposed penis head grows layers of nerveless cells in an attempt to protect itself. Sooner or later the head of the circumcised penis becomes an abnormal and insensitive organ. Circumcised men later in life have complained that the removal of their foreskin dramatically reduced their sexual experience. You as a woman should know that, the head of the circumcised penis requires heavier touching in order to be stimulated. Many sex guru believe that circumcision diminishes sensitivity during intercourse. A recent study found that circumcised men are sexually more adventurous than intact men. One theory is that circumcised men have an increased need for more intense stimulation such as masturbation, oral and anal sex.... So if your partner is circumcised you have to play harder..... The worst oral sex position is 69... but not for everybody thinks so...The 69 position. In this position the partners perform on top or side by side oral sex on each other. Two things are wrong with 69 position. The first: The angles are typically wrong for him to reach her clitoris. And is hard to her to angle his penis into her mouth. The second thing: If someone performing oral sex, hard to concentrate on receiving it. Who can concentrate to give a pleasure when tongue is playing with her clitoris? If you are on the swingers party the 69 position is an excellent position to get into the mood the others... Related Articles:
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